I can't count how many times I have had Dutch people say to me: it's quite normal for "you people" to have multiple partners at the same time isn't it? On the face of it, a quite dumbass remark, but looking around at many folks here in the Caribbean there may be some truth to it. But where does certain behavior come from? Is it "us people" or is it something to do with how we have been made to believe who we are?